US /ɪn ˈɛni kes/
・UK /in ˈeni keis/
we are all paying our taxes in any case either directly or indirectly, and I think that the
field, which we are doing in any case, but on our website on which we got a huge amount
In any case, you have to pursue that, the input.
Uh, in any case, you have to pursue that, uh, the input.
And if you do not stick with it, the money you pay goes toward charity, so you'll do something good in any case!
And if you do not stick with it, the money you pay goes toward charity, so you'll do something good in any case.
But in any case, I'm going to have to go with D, Ella.
Um, but in any case, I'm going to have to go with D, Ella.
In any case, at some point people will emerge again - from submarines or bunkers or mountaintops.
In any case, at some point people will emerge again – from submarines or bunkers
You have a great hearse, Sean. ["Turkish March"] So the vehicle behind me, some call it a hearse, some call it a coach, but in any case, it gets the deceased from point A to point B.
But in any case, it gets the deceased from point A to point B.
It's just that for us, home was a place of grief and persecution. It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment. They're born radically powerless. They can't run away. They are utterly at the mercy of others. They can't even think especially straight. What they must do, above all else, is adapt. Which in practice means learning to put up with poor treatment. They have to develop an advanced skill at not noticing quite how awful things are, an expertise at being unfazed by cruelty and neglect. Children in deprived circumstances tend to be geniuses at looking away, disassociating and making light of things. Of course, it might not be perfect that their father screams at them constantly, but there are some interesting shows on television and there's a really fascinating bit of the garden to explore in the morning. You can climb up the big tree and imagine it's a little house. And of course, ideally their mother wouldn't be so mocking and disloyal. But that's just the way things are, neither more or less sad than the fact it's often raining and there's a lot of homework to do. In any case, the bad treatment almost certainly has to do with something that they, the child, have done wrong. Badly treated children tend to take a compulsively generous view of those who injure them. Obviously, they aren't nasty on purpose. That would make no sense. Clearly, their ostensible brutality has sound explanations. It must be because they, the child, is in the wrong. That's why they're being neglected. That's why they've been declared fools. That's why they're being bullied. It's a great deal easier to believe that the parent is tough, yet fundamentally right, rather than gratuitously callous and unjustifiably hostile. In other words, what a bad childhood trains us to do, above all else, is to indulge meanness. The muscle that normally functions to repel attacks has had to be starved and has atrophied. In order to survive, we had to lose the ability to work out what was good and bad for us, lest we discover that we spent 18 years in the company of fiends. What this means for our futures is that we will be extremely poor at discerning when the partners we let into our lives cross the border into selfishness and malevolence. We'll continue under a narcoleptic command not to notice that we're being robbed and deceived. We'll be as blind to the blows now as we were then. For a long time, it simply won't occur to us to wonder why we've ended up paying for everything for the partner, or why they're unreliable in their promises, or constantly prioritise their friends over us, or are angrily defensive whenever we raise a complaint. We will simply, as we had to early on, fall into line and invent elaborate explanations for their behaviour. They're good, but they're tired. They're durable, but under pressure at work. They're fierce, but compensating for their childhood traumas, for which we have a lot of sympathy. Anything other than the more straightforward conclusion, we've fallen in with unconcerned egoists. We shouldn't compound our disloyalty towards ourselves by feeling, on top of everything else, ashamed for our tolerance. It isn't weakness, it's a survival strategy from childhood that served a very sensible purpose then but is liable to be ruining our lives now. To wake ourselves up, we need to consider our choices as if someone else had made them. We might wonder what we would advise a friend to do if they were in our situation. And through such a lens, we might start to perceive that the treatment we're facing isn't, as we've long thought, a sign of our partner's depth or complexity, but in the end, something much more humble, evidence that we need to get away. But this will be only a momentary liberation until we can understand the more fundamental issue, that the muscle most people use to eject poison has withered because of a distinctive history. We need to reverse the direction of our psychological fate. Our early suffering should not condemn us to yet more pain. It is what gives us an especially powerful claim on original sources of kindness, tenderness and calm.
In any case, the bad treatment almost certainly has to do with something that they—the child—have done wrong.
Firstly, don't expect to get over this any time soon. Severe damage is done by those who – out of great kindness – frame heartbreak as something that we must all inevitably get over with time. But what if there were no shoulds in this area? What if we let the pain last just as long and not a minute less as it needs to, which might be three months, ten years or the rest of one's life, but in any case considerably longer than one's sensible married friends seem to think it should last? What if we recategorised this as a chronic illness rather than a passing cold? What if we didn't compound our sorrows by setting bounds to them and then castigating ourselves for trespassing them? What if we assumed very darkly that we would just never quite get over this?
but in any case considerably longer than one's sensible married friends seem to think it should last.
I will look at the facts and evidence in any case.
I will look at the facts and evidence in any case.
In any case, Galactus should play a key role in sending the Fantastic Four to Earth 616.
In any case, Galactus should play a key role in sending the Fantastic Four to Earth 616.